Identity Ramblings and Trip Reflections

When you travel, it changes you. You change in ways you may have anticipated, and almost always in some ways you never could’ve imagined. I returned home from my trip to Burundi last week, and while this was a work trip and not a mission trip, I am inescapably changed in ways I never could’ve anticipated.

As a generation, we have come to a place in our understanding of ourselves so as to conclude that what we believe about our identity is the foundation of how we live our lives. Even as a believer though, I find the shifting sand of my own comprehension of my identity to be changing and evolving as the wind blows against my fragile soul. What I believe about myself will shape my life, but my beliefs are constantly changing with each new perspective I encounter or trial I walk through. The question of “Who am I?” seems as elusive as ever.

While the foundation of my identity is wholeheartedly rooted in my Christian beliefs – I am created in the image of God, once a sinner, now redeemed by the blood of Jesus, a child of God, co-heir with Christ, no longer defined by my sin – there is so much more to our identity than that. And while not having our identity rooted in these truths can destroy our life and walk as a believer, it is utterly naive to solely define identity by the foundation of it.

Your identity is what you define yourself by. What you believe about yourself or find belonging and community within. The danger of being unaware of what you believe about yourself is the adoption of false identities that are lies intended to undermine you or prevent you from becoming all that you were created to be.

You were designed by God for a purpose. And coming alive in your passion, gifting, and all the ways that you love to reveal God’s love; is how you give glory to God in this life and uniquely reveal the light of His love in a dark and broken world.

I believe this so strongly. Yet my journey to the other side of the world has me a little shaken. I’m smart, passionate, enthusiastic, pioneering, and I love people. I also struggle with a lot of doubt concerning my faith and the ways that we do church in America. I struggle with comfort being such a driving motivator of my decisions throughout my day. I’m a messy person and simultaneously bitterly perfectionistic. My life is undeniably blessed, and yet the majority of the rest of the world lives in perpetual hunger and thirst for the most basic needs of life. Why? It doesn’t make any sense. I just have to trust God and declare what I know in the depths of my soul to be true: He is good.

While all of these statements are true of me, I cannot allow my struggles to define me. They are not who I am; only an obstacle I am facing. A season I am in.

After all these ramblings you may find yourself asking, “What does this have to do with her trip? What happened?” Nothing and everything. It was a simple trip. I had a seven-hour layover in London on the way there. I walked past Buckingham Palace on the way to Westminster Abbey and paid my 10 dollars to step into the most history-filled buildings I’ve ever experienced. I unexpectedly had a layover in Iceland! I love the opportunity to explore new places on my own.

I met some great people, encountered severe poverty, and saw how the work that I do in my comfortable office in DFW links to people who don’t have clean water getting clean water to drink and live.




More than anything in reflecting on my trip, I am just so grateful. Grateful for my home, marriage, family, community, education, and so much more. I feel more settled in the season that I am in, and more content to be present and stop longing for ten years from now.

Thoughtful and Grateful.

With all the hope I can carry,

– Jess

Introducing Originality

Hello friend! Welcome to Originality: The Personality Project. Thank you for taking the time to check in and join me on this journey – it means the world to me that you are here!

My mission in creating this project and its corresponding podcast is to use the languages of personality to help you better understand who you are and where your place is in the world. The blog will have some of the same content as the podcast, but with more of a focus on identity and how it must be grounded in who God is and our relationship with Him.

While the blog will have more focus on identity and purpose, there where still be lots of fun content on all things personality. The primary personality languages that I will be using are myers-briggs, the enneagram, and strengthfinders, with an occasional mention of DiSC, spiritual gifts, redemptive gifts, and love languages.

There has been a lot of talk in the church in recent years about identity. Along with the identity focus in teaching and preaching around the world has arisen a cult-like obsession with all things personality. People all over the world are hungrier than ever to get a grasp of who they are, how they are wired, and where their place is in the world.

Personality is only one of many components that make up identity. Some of your personality is how you are wired and the unique revelation of God’s image that you can reveal to the world. Some of your personality is a structure that you have built around your authentic self out of traumatic experiences, coping mechanisms, or the lies you have believed about God, yourself, and others.

This structure that makes up your personality is how you interact with the world around you. Learning personality languages allows you to put words to that structure so that you can begin to deconstruct it and become more of who God has created you to be.

As some people study the starts and the expanse of the universe to be moved by the greatness and glory of God, I study people. It is so much fun to find two people that have extremely similar personalities, and then find the differences between them. I am moved by the immense originality of God in the connections between our similarities and yet our distinct individuality.

There are few greater joys in life for me than to sit across a table from someone armed with the knowledge of their personality and then speak identity and courage into them. You, friend, are a one-of-a-kind creation. A beautiful revelation of who God is that only you can bring into the world. You were created for a purpose. You were created to belong.

If God has put a dream or vision in your heart, be bold in the pursuit of the assignment He has placed before you. Do not let other voices tell you that what you bring to the table is not enough or it will get lost in the crowd. You were birthed out of the great originality of God and your purpose cannot be compared.

I pray that today God will give you a vision to see yourself the way that He sees you, and the courage to take a risk on the dream He has placed in your heart.

It has been so much fun to finally introduce you to Originality I cannot wait to share more with you!